tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3370970170301288861.post3954122361091846625..comments2024-03-02T20:43:21.208-08:00Comments on NewVintageLady: More personal stuff.Shelleyjhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05223944949880318245noreply@blogger.comBlogger11125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3370970170301288861.post-20599313686448280612011-11-07T10:19:46.976-08:002011-11-07T10:19:46.976-08:00Very late comment, but I stumbled across your blog...Very late comment, but I stumbled across your blog, linked from another retro sewing blog (I love your style btw!) and this and your previous doctor post caught my eye. This might not be helpful at all, but on the off chance it is, I thought I would mention it -- if they haven't run a thyroid test for you yet, request a *full* thyroid panel, and then get the actual numbers (not just "it's normal") from the doctor and cross check your results with the American Association of Clinical Endocrinologist's guidelines for "normal" thyroid function. The main test for thyroid function is called Thyroid Stimulating Hormone (TSH), and the AACE considers anything under 0.3 TSH to be hyperthyroid and anything over 3.0 TSH to be hypothyroid. But a lot of labs and doctors are still using standards that are 10 or even 30 years old, which say that anything under 5.0 or even 10.0 is normal. It's not, and you can feel very ill at even a smidge over 3.0 or under 0.3. Thyroid antibodies are the other very important test, and can indicate an ongoing autoimmune thyroid problem even if your TSH is within normal ranges. I believe that Thyroid auto-antibodies are supposed to be "less than 30" to be normal, and in someone with thyroid disease will often read "more than 300, too large to measure". There are other numbers involved in a full thyroid panel (T3, T4, T4 uptake, etc) that an experienced endocrinologist (try to find one who is a member of the AACE) will know how to interpret. And even if your TSH comes back between 0.3 and 3.0, if you have antibodies or your other numbers are off, treatment can help (and sometimes the adrenals need to be looked at as well, but again, a competent endocrinologist will know how to proceed).<br /><br />I mention this because I've been chronically ill for the better part of a decade and had more than my fair share of really crappy doctors, and through all that I've learned that you *have* to be an advocate for yourself. You have to double check the lab's findings against standards published by national organizations. Thyroid problems can cause fatigue, dry skin, hair loss, blood pressure problems, difficulty gaining or losing weight, difficulty with pregnancy, etc -- and a tight feeling in your throat, caused by the thyroid gland actually being swollen. Like I said, it might not have any bearing on your situation, but I thought it couldn't hurt to mention it. :)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3370970170301288861.post-56394073762613652002011-09-15T12:59:24.511-07:002011-09-15T12:59:24.511-07:00My 18 year old learned this recently: Evaluate tru...My 18 year old learned this recently: Evaluate true friends by the effect they have on your life--Are they adding to, subtracting from, multiplying, or dividing your life? Also, from my own experience Flonase is good, be careful how you spray, getting too close could cause nose burn. Finally, praying that you find you find the job of your dreams :)!!Robinhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11688809657787883372noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3370970170301288861.post-60895157293733199532011-09-15T12:47:07.626-07:002011-09-15T12:47:07.626-07:00I just went back and read your orignal post about ...I just went back and read your orignal post about Erica and it's got me all pensive... I remember being in a similar situation but I was in Erica's place. I had a friend who I respected quite a bit but who reguarly would make comments that hurt me. I felt that I was constantly going out of my way to accomodate her, just as I would for any friend, but my efforts were not reciprocated. Eventually we were no longer friends, and in hindsight I din't handle it as well as I should have. Once things started breaking down, my friend and I lost all ability to communicate. I totally get that there is a balance to how responsible you are for what you say and others' reactions and in my case I just couldn't find that balance. Some people can find that balance but we weren't able to.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3370970170301288861.post-38175271531486307422011-09-15T10:32:59.633-07:002011-09-15T10:32:59.633-07:00Glad you have found a doctor who will listen to yo...Glad you have found a doctor who will listen to you. Do you know what you are allergic too? Even if you can't get away from the allergen (like dust mites) keeping them down really helps (eliminating rugs/carpets, a bed sack to contain the mattress, and the list goes on). Your doctor may be able to direct you to websites that can help.<br />As for Erica ditch her.AnnetteAKhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03944902639007249151noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3370970170301288861.post-59609916362521178462011-09-15T08:52:57.795-07:002011-09-15T08:52:57.795-07:00Jane, you are right. I don't respect her. Huh,...Jane, you are right. I don't respect her. Huh, I really don't. <br />As for the allergies, my nose is fine. This is all in my throat. It feels just beneath my tongue, but I can breath just great.<br />Oh well, we will see.Shelleyjhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05223944949880318245noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3370970170301288861.post-6594509666788986982011-09-15T08:22:58.312-07:002011-09-15T08:22:58.312-07:00I think that I would pass on this 'friendship&...I think that I would pass on this 'friendship'. Too much drama. Too much stress. Whether she is calling ahead to make travel plans or she just sees me walking and pulls over to offer a ride I'd just politely turn down her offer ["Oh, you are so kind, but really I just need my walking time"]. If seriously pressed, or more likely if some one else mentions my refusal to accept a ride I might just mention that walking is part of my personal exercise plan and then change the subject.<br /><br />She obviously wants to feel superior. I'd make sure that those sorts of tactics just publicly roll of my back. You might find the respect of a better class of friends that way.<br /><br />So glad to hear you've found a doctor willing to listen to the patient first and then act.<br />VeronicaT'Pelhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14497973041430354008noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3370970170301288861.post-33788141012513675732011-09-15T05:57:00.910-07:002011-09-15T05:57:00.910-07:00Glad this week is going a little better. My sister...Glad this week is going a little better. My sister is in 8th grade and just starting to deal with how weird and mean some people can act. It is really hard and she was kind of depressed to find out that it doesn't go away.Alyssahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14204598010453409678noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3370970170301288861.post-86737250179273682412011-09-15T05:44:46.165-07:002011-09-15T05:44:46.165-07:00Shelley, do you ever use a neti pot? It's a w...Shelley, do you ever use a neti pot? It's a way of irrigating the nasal passages with a saline solution (you mix yourself) and a very gentle and effective way of soothing allergies. You can generally find one at any health food store. A very good investment!Peter Lappinhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05109154527996679077noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3370970170301288861.post-24573163770259805542011-09-15T05:26:19.979-07:002011-09-15T05:26:19.979-07:00Though I'm a fine one to talk, because I'm...Though I'm a fine one to talk, because I'm going through the same type of thing with a "friend" also, ditch Erika. Who needs the stress? Tell her you'll get your own ride. No need to explain anything to her. What for? Turn the tables on her and let her be the one guessing what the status of your "friendship" is. These types of people are not my definition of a friend, that is, someone you can rely upon. The silent treatment she gives you really makes her sound like she's very passive aggressive. And besides, from your description of her, it sounds like she isn't the type of person you respect. So why tolerate having her in your life?Janehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01851312702044308420noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3370970170301288861.post-41489133824883066772011-09-15T05:17:14.832-07:002011-09-15T05:17:14.832-07:00Too much drama. She sounds toxic, manipulative, an...Too much drama. She sounds toxic, manipulative, and an emotional vampire. "Friends" like this are an energy suck. You deserve better.Valeriehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01895625114035965626noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3370970170301288861.post-81455164805830695722011-09-15T04:18:03.585-07:002011-09-15T04:18:03.585-07:00I think it is wonderful you found a new doc and th...I think it is wonderful you found a new doc and that you are on steps towards figuring out your throat ick. I love that you dance and when my hubby gets home I can't wait to go dancing again!<br />Thoughts on Erica, I have been there and done that and from personal experience I recommend walking away. I despise drama and for me a high maintenance person who thrives on drama is to be avoided like the plague. I am the type to answer a person honestly, bluntly at times, but honestly. I think just letting it go at this point will be one less thing for your shoulders to carry and one less thing to add to those stressors (blood pressure). Yet regardless, always choose do do what is best for you in a situation that has negatives. BranBrandy Laytonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00967614111165031144noreply@blogger.com