tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3370970170301288861.post669967883957377674..comments2024-03-02T20:43:21.208-08:00Comments on NewVintageLady: Women, we gotta get out of our own way (rant with cussing involved)!Shelleyjhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05223944949880318245noreply@blogger.comBlogger9125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3370970170301288861.post-23565719024232542282015-03-13T10:30:34.286-07:002015-03-13T10:30:34.286-07:00Great post! All the contradicting standards about ...Great post! All the contradicting standards about women's bodies are so frustrating and infuriating. Can't people just mind their own bodies and stop policing other people's physical appearance?! My best friend says mean stuff about other women all the time and it drives me nuts! "Beauty" is purely subjective and women shouldn't be shamed because they do not match someone else's definition.Katehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09870435785776540136noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3370970170301288861.post-58725470625812749052015-03-13T03:14:45.627-07:002015-03-13T03:14:45.627-07:00"Stop with the mental judgements and just fin..."Stop with the mental judgements and just find something, something to be positive about, or don't think about it at all." <br />Amen.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3370970170301288861.post-2473454667285547222015-03-12T07:28:13.341-07:002015-03-12T07:28:13.341-07:00You said it! You said it well too! I will try ha...You said it! You said it well too! I will try harder not be judgy even in my mind.Connie Turnerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13526657792519056005noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3370970170301288861.post-24729920743441103432015-03-11T23:40:40.376-07:002015-03-11T23:40:40.376-07:00We are so mean! That is what drives me crazy. Perh...We are so mean! That is what drives me crazy. Perhaps part of that os patriarchy, because the woman that the man favors will have the power. I Don't think we as women have ever gotten past that.Shelleyjhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05223944949880318245noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3370970170301288861.post-26809206473570455102015-03-11T18:17:39.946-07:002015-03-11T18:17:39.946-07:00We are a mean lot. My husband insists its because ...We are a mean lot. My husband insists its because of the patriarchy. I love the little dear for saying that, but I think it is just that we are human. And the internet seems to amplify that.<br />You've put this much better than I would. SJ Kurtzhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04871599515352715171noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3370970170301288861.post-33825355444627734942015-03-11T15:24:05.950-07:002015-03-11T15:24:05.950-07:00AmenAmenAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02500490363731355974noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3370970170301288861.post-51650948360250926162015-03-11T11:26:20.877-07:002015-03-11T11:26:20.877-07:00I'm 63 years old. it's been years, YEARS,...I'm 63 years old. it's been years, YEARS, since I've seen an ugly person, in real life. The media, in all of it's incarnations, from Internet to the advertisement flyer tucked under one's windshield wiper, is creating ugly thoughts about regular people. False concern about a person one knows nothing about, is intrusive and bad form.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04700758717630560514noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3370970170301288861.post-14000051014026260052015-03-11T06:58:21.526-07:002015-03-11T06:58:21.526-07:00Thank you for writing this. I've thought it so...Thank you for writing this. I've thought it so many times. At age 65, if any one bothers to even notice me, I've lost the "attractive" wars from the get go.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01523172658873794885noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3370970170301288861.post-48005869910495821032015-03-11T01:26:53.660-07:002015-03-11T01:26:53.660-07:00Yay! I completely agree. We probably all do it som...Yay! I completely agree. We probably all do it sometimes but lets try not to. Go you.Lyndlehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02074439380587418342noreply@blogger.com